According to Is It Healthy for Couples to Travel Apart,some people may feel strange about traveling without their beloveds. They may consider that it is a way to show their love is in the decline. However, still others stand at the opposite side. They think such solo trips represent trust.
My reactions:
We tend to see couples and friends do things together, once they appear without their loved one or good friend, we may guess they are in a non-speaking situation, which is usually called “cold war”. In my point of view, however, it is a burden. We are easily tired of the one who always keep us company. Thus, having a trip without those who you contact almost every day is a relaxation not only to us but also to our beloveds.
Take myself for example, I like to have the single time sometimes without anyone. At this period, I can ponder some profound problems or appreciate the scenery minus distraction. Our life can’t prevent interactions from others, but it is essential to leave a modicum of time and space to ourselves. Though staying alone is an exile from the noisiness and society, it is refreshment both to our mind and body. After trying this solo time several times, I convince that you will love it.
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